There are many accounts of sexual sin in the Bible, and we can learn much from both the stories of success and those of failure. In my eyes, Joseph’s victory over sexual temptation was one of the most inspiring.
By the time seventeen year old Joseph was sold to Potiphar in Genesis 39, he was probably dealing with intense trauma, rejection, anger, bitterness and despair as a result of what his own brothers had done to him. Being a Hebrew slave in a foreign land with no discernable way of returning home must have been incredibly lonely and relationally isolating. When looking at the long list of challenges he was faced with, it would be easy to understand if Joseph had given in to the daily sexual advances of Potiphar’s wife.
I know every man is wired differently, but unless Potiphar’s wife was the ugliest and most unpleasant woman on earth, this would have been an enormous temptation for any man. So what were the keys that kept Joseph from giving in to sexual temptation?
1. Know God is with you (Genesis 39:2-3)
Joseph was aware that God was with him and was the source of his supernatural success. For us as New Covenant believers in Yeshua, God is not only with us, but He lives in us through the Holy Spirit. Being aware and connected to the indwelling presence of the Holy Spirit is crucial for victory. We have access to unlimited power and courage for resisting and overcoming sin when we know God is always with us and for us!
2. Know what has been entrusted to you (Genesis 39:8-9)
“How can I do this great wickedness, and sin against God?” (Genesis 39:9)
As citizens in the kingdom of God, we are ambassadors of King Yeshua and are given the massive responsibility to represent Him and His will in the earth. Adultery, pornography and all forms of secret sexual sin will lead to destruction in our lives and the lives of those closest to us, and will impact our ability to steward all that is entrusted to us.
3. Refuse (Genesis 39:8,10)
Joseph simply refused to give in. He would not heed the daily requests of Potiphar’s wife or even spend time around her. He determined to take the narrow, difficult path and was unmovable in his decision. What if we were the same? What if from now on we refused to entertain adulterous thoughts, refused to give time to lust filled fantasy, refused urges to look at pornography, and refused to engage in any form of sexual gratification outside of marriage?
4. Flee (Genesis 39:11-12)
At just the right time, when no one was home, Potiphar’s wife turned up the heat with physical touch. But again, like every other time, Joseph was ready with his pre-determined response: “No, No and No!”
His Nike running shoes were tied tightly, and he bolted immediately when she reached for him. Too often we wrongly conclude that when no one is around we can fight off sexual temptation on our own.
Fleeing can look like physically leaving a location, turning off your computer, making a phone call to ask for prayer … I call this pro-active purity. If you don’t enjoy confessing your sin to others, train yourself to flee before the sin happens!
God spoke through a prophet years ago saying,
“To a people without mixture, I will give My Spirit without measure!”
I believe Joseph’s pursuit of purity is a prophetic example calling our generation to remove sexual compromise at all cost and become the pure spotless bride for whom Yeshua will come.